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His/her control over you limits your personal freedom.
DASH’s early warning signs are meant to guide you in determining whether your relationship is healthy.
In this series of articles, we will explore each warning sign in more depth so that you will have a better idea about what each sign means and if you need to address a problem in your relationship.
Control – He/she tells you what to do or how to act Teen dating abuse is about control.
It’s about your partner trying to control what you do, how you act, what you say.
But a line is crossed if you feel you have to wear a particular style to avoid a confrontation.
He may tell you not to wear revealing clothing because he doesn’t want others looking at you.It’s just easier to put on the jeans than to wear the short shorts so he won’t call you names.He/she may challenge your ideas or actions telling you that the way you do things is “wrong”.Debating which is the better song or team or idea is something every one does, but if your partner insists that you think like he/she does your personal opinions are being limited . When he/she confronts you, you feel that you can diffuse the situation by agreeing to do what he/she wants.By questioning your ideas and thoughts, the abuser makes you vulnerable to his/her influence. This warning sign is a signal that what your partner is doing is not love: it’s control. If your boyfriend or girlfriend likes to see you wear a certain style of clothing, that may be fine.She may be able to give you guidance about your style or he may really like to see you in a certain color.